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Showing posts with label relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationship. Show all posts

Saturday, December 19, 2009

Finally I come to know that why D girlz R Best

Even before i justify the post i must say with all my truth that “Exceptions are always there. And this is not a VIM BAR challenge so i am not going to return any money even if you buy my thought”.

So … [:-)] smiling hunhh . youn vi. But i know the reason that why you people are laughing. As per my previous posts people were telling or better to say running on me that “Khud to ek ladki pata nahi paaya and talking about girls”. Like Pakistan talking about peace in Kashmir. Whatever. But friend this is true, that i got the emancipation [:)] as per the knowledge about the girls are in concern……..

Reason ? Simple and easy.

You may have some hesitation while realizing this but this is a hard coded truth. That we as a men have some limitations which women are not having. So even before i say anything more i have a definition of girl:

GIRL: Guaranteed Intellectual Repository of Life

They make you amazed whenever you put a query in front of them and after getting the solution you feel that they are the one who has generated the query.

They are as unpredictable as life is.

They are as surprising as happiness is.

They are as supportive as destiny is.

They are as confusing as success is.

Moreover anything…….

They are as committed as Death is.

Relation for them is soul, emotions for them is breathing, dreams fot them are obsessions, success for them is an installment and love for them is life.

After reading all this with allmost full of your patience i know that majority of you will say that all this is wrong. So man this is not for all those broken heart fellows who believe that all the failuers of their belong to the girl they loved . As i personally believe that understanding a girl and judging a girl on the platform of love is no where similar. May be the girl is having deiffernet priorities, different aims, different thoughts. But being different is no where wrong.

Chill man! Do one thing just try to realize the presence of a female in your life. She can be any one, your girl friend, friend, sister, or any one with whom you can associate your self. And then feel that does the same prejudices which we have are still there, do we still believe that we got defet in any of the field because there was one girl in the scenerio.

I don’t know that gentleman who said “That i don’t know about the successful man but yes i can bet that there is always a girl behind every unsuccessful man” . Salute to the gentelman.

I don’t know that how people associates their losses with the relation they had.

Through out the world the common physhcology is a relation makes you stornger as it gives you the power to understan the meaning of two and we have more saying to justify that one and one makes eleven, though i am not saying that this is the only reason of this lengthy and boring post as i personally am not dependent on the proverbs only.

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I can put lot’s of lines here like the daily soap opera of “Ekta Kappor” “Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu thi and Sasur bhi Kabhi damaad Tha”. But no i will not do that as i know ….[:)] boys hate and female loves serials like this.

I want to become a good time pass

Looks absurd!!!!!!

Ya it is. This is the first time you are reading crap like this but one thing about which i am pretty sure is that you never seen this line at the angle i am seeing it.

I can translate it in three different meanings:

1. I want to be a good companion.

2. I want to be a good mentor.

3. I want to be a person with all the sharable joys.

Probably i had justified myself, still for the age old people who are still in the dilemm to understand that what i mean i am having one more paragraph.

Sometimes we feel in a group that we are speechless, specially, when we are two only and the other one is a female. Now You certainly want to be the one of above three. Ya! this is you who has a responsibility to carry on the relation, so what if you are two only and you have less common to talk and probably nothing to discuss. As now you are open you can talk anything, you can mold the discussion any where if you have guts.

Sometimes your closest friend said to you that he is being suicidal now a days and you have to give him some solutions to his problems at least some suggestions. You are again speechless as you can’t give him anything more than what ” Shiv Khera” has given to millions of people. You have no solutions ..you have nothing for your friend. It means you again need one or all of above three as either do justice to your friendship or leave the name friendship from the relation you two are having.

Sometimes the mob is uncontrolled and now you are the one who is going to take the charge to control them but you surrendered because you think that you are not “Nana Pateker” and you can’t be the hero of “Krantiveer”. So what if the situation is going to be worst due to you only. You again want the same remedy of above three.

Many times you see a girl and you want to talk to her but no you can not, because we are obsessed with the thought that talking to a girl means talking intimacy …or talking sex. That’s why you will prefer to go without ticket but never say to the girl in the sorter line that you need one ticket as you think that you are talking to her because of you want to get intimated. What the crap ? Necessarily you want one of the above solutions.

So this is something which i believe that we all should have and finally i can say to all my friends who are looking for a girl [:)] that this is something which a girl want in her boy friend.

Sorry girls!!!! I don’t know what boys want in his girl.

Good Bye…for the next post. Finally there is nothing wrong in my terms if i am going to become a good time pass. As i am going to save many things which i explained above.

Aapka

Love Guru.

Thursday, May 01, 2008

Your welcome is subject to the ornaments you have

You are going somewhere and you want people to get along with you then what is the possibility that you will get them on your side, Let's have a look:
1. You think that you are convivial and eat drink and be merry is your slogan for life then apart from the slogan you must have or you need money to buy that "eat, drink, and for being merry". If you are not having that soon you will change your slogan to "Life is all about give and take".

2. Though you are not brilliant still you smoothly driving your cart of academics say thanx to god and your friends as the circumstances they had made for you which are not only favourable to you but also making other people convinced to put the burden of yours at their back on their expenses. The day is not for away when you feel that people are feeling you tough and unbearable so make your self worthy to have that confidence and love of GOD and Friends.

3. Your coolest friend some times make you think twice or thrice about your or his behaviour not because of you had changed but because of the suitability you are having for the friendship, and this requires changes and compatibility with the market so better go for servicing than people through you out and buy a new one.

4. Parting is not bad at all after all this is the span of life when each and every moment requires some zeal and enthusiasm to be lived so if you are thinking that at any point of time you are loosing that passion it directly indicates that you need to wake up and upgradation is required otherwise time of farewell is near to you by the friend's with whom you lived and sang the most sentimental songs of friendship.

So i am not saying that there is any harm in you or in friends or the definition of life is being changed this is all about the professionalism which has under covered the relations under the banner that the suitability of yours is the requirements of others and both in combination always forms the best example of friendship. So make it sure that though friendship is forever, friends need to be re conceived after a specified time span which is good and healthy for the long term relation.

Friday, September 07, 2007

Ek Ruthe to naye dost bana lete hain.....

Waqt ki dor mere dil ko khichty kyoun hai ,
Wo yaad aaj bhi aankhon ko sinchty kyoun hai,
Main bina uske ek pal kabhi na ji paaya,
Jindagi mujhse is kadar rutthi kyoun hai.


Wo najar aur wo hothon ki narm pankhuriyaan,
wo naram gaalon ki maalika hai mery ranjhaadiyan,
usko kyoun kaid kiya hai bhala muquaadar ne,
jindagi de ke mohabbat ko lut ti kyoun hai .


Waise behtar tha tera mujh se door youn jana,
Apni duniya ko khud se lutna jala jana,
Bahut dekha tune manjar mery ruswaai ka,
Jisko dekha nahi wo iskq parkhti kyoun hai.


Aao hum fir se nayi dor bana lete hain,
Jukhmi dil hai use ek oor chupa lete hain,
waise mujheko bhi pata hai aur tumko bhi pata,
Ek ruthe to naye dost bana lete hain.

Monday, October 09, 2006

The epiphamy of confusion..

I always find the situation either this way round or other way round that i suffer from the situation of liability among my colleges i don't know why the cacophony created but it is.
As today one of my colleague was seeking the clarification from on the issue which never raises from my side but it was at the verge of their side.May be the verbose attitude of mine is responsible for it or may some other reasons are responsible but the ultimate effect is that they think that i am having some short of ire as per they are in concern , but the question of thousand dollar is that why should i have the problem we are here again for fulfilling our individual desires in the comparative and relative manner so whatever is going on is not should be like this.
By d way which per my consideration is right that, the truth always comes without the if's and but's but for that i along with other have to wait and watch.
And up to then i have to bear with the situation. Love to you friends i am not at all freak as you are thinking.