Let’s discuss some of the thing which we really don’t want to discuss. What friends means to us and how we can fight for this word.
PPl who live arround you with the all the sharing of good and bad feelings are your friend …?
ppl with whom you shares all the secrets and nonsecret things are your friends…?
ppl who proves his worth with the puchline “A friend in a need is a friend indeed” are your friend..?
or ppl who really care about you and never shows the feelings through the word are your friend…?
None can define the exact, and precisely it is not possible. Indeed. Then why this word is lossing his worth and meaning i dont know about you but in genral cases and i am not saying this about me even, touchwood that i have good fnds deep inside me.
Why a fnd is worried about his fnd’s success, in negative senese..?
Why a fnd used to know about the progress of his fnd again in the gray shades..?
Why a fnd is happy but not in the same context as he or she should be, when his so called best fnd achives something great..?
I don’t know but yes i can say that all the relation is in trouble if this is a reality which modern genration is going through …And if success is realtive and the only parameter of having fnd’s and makind fnd’s then i must say that there is nthg wrong if above all lines are applicable to you or to your fnds. As this is the mandatory thing which must be fallowed by we all to have the Demo of fndship.
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Saturday, December 19, 2009
Sunday, October 19, 2008
From India to Japan: A journey
I hope this topic does not require any introduction. As the person about whom i am talking is implicit. Yes he is none other than the " Plan Man of Our Group".
Before i start writing it i have a moral as well as legal warning for you guys that all the thoughts are fictitious and there is no link in between the lines written here to any of the living or nonliving objects :) . If any resemblance is found then it will be treated mere as a coincidence.
So the story begins like this:
This was summer of 2002, more hot, more lethargic and more tough than any other summer. Sun was like the booming economy of India. As the time passes from morning 9 am to 12 am, so as the share market grows up to the unexpected height and so as the heat produced by the sun. May be both were competing with each other or may be India was heading towards the economic reform and the atmoshperic deform. Any thing.
Same year few fresh minds were destined to meet, to collaborate, to vacillate and for lot's of other task together. Place was moradabad . A place which was well know for the communal disharmony, which was well known for the Green Belt of farming it had and more over any thing if a say in one word it is city of brass. Yes this was BRASS CITY MORADABAD.
At the outskirts of this place which was newly developed .... with the ambiance of River RAMGANGA which is some how linked with the holy river ganga. With the fragrance of all greenery and the belt of wheat and mustard there was one place which was neither enough old nor new but OK this was good.. as all those who failed for IIT's thinks this can be the next place from where they can jump and they can again get there safe future. Yes this was MIT Moradabad. A 1996 estd college. College was having good repo in all the private colleges and was a good destination in between Delhi and Lucknow the two hubs of education.
They all were fresh enough to sing the song "Aankhon main sapne liye ghar se hum chal to diye" and this way the story begins though this was the huge crowd as doing an engineering was no more a specific course to be done it was mere a status symbol to attain so many of those who wanted to do a simple graduation for the shake of their family status opted for engineering and thus the crowd was divide in two one Hostalids and other one Localids. The line which i mentioned couple of heights above is more applicable to the second group. Though after joining the college life both the groups were having the same aims same thoughts and same dreams. Ya in some cases those were amplified and in some cases not amplified but OK. Now everyone of them wanted to be THE ENGINEER.
In this crew of 2500 students there was one fellow who was similar to Buffalo {if you talk about look}..... similar to Shiv Khera if you talk about thoughts {Note : I don't like shiv khera} ... similar to Saif Ali Khan of "Dil Chahta Hai " {if you exclude the wealth saif was having though the movie was not released until then }...... Similar to many unwanted disease which you never ever imagine for you. But a big butt :P he was a good Friend of liquor group, smoker group, and all other banned group of hostel. He was the first servant of the most notorious grand senior of our batch. He was the only one who been allotted a room not with us but with grand Seniors. So many unwanted, undesirable and unimaginable things happened to him in a very first year. I cant say much about these consequences with which he met but yes my opinion for him was that he is spoilt bread and in one line i say i hated him in first due to various reasons. Which i explained above.
But how come it affects him if he is the protongonist of the story so ... in the very first year what he did in the college was more indulging in the activity which i mentioned more grouping, more investment in terms of time and money to the group and :) and gossiping.
Sorry but i am not able to control my feelings about him and if i say that somebody if then would have come to me and ask what you say about his perforamnce .. i must said that he is going to be zero. But neither others nor the god has given a shit to my predictions and he was among the toppers in my batch. So this was the first success he got and by the end of the year few things which being genralized for him was as under:
1. He is good in planning.
2. He is good in partying.
3. He is good in team.
4. He is good in Cricket.
5. He has a best group of mit as a friend circle.
So above was the first year. And great achivements. Bravo. Mr. PlanMan.
This is a unanimous believe that second year brings a 3 fold swing to the first year students and same happened. Those who were the entrants in the notorious group became the shotters of that groups and the group was having there name on them. Which resulted in n number of Deciplinry action against him and other members means the guy who was just a beginner became the leader thanx the authorities and here comes the real realtion between me and the Hero of the story. Everytime anything wrong been done in the hostel or in the college or any where there few culprits which were undoubtly captured and fortunately me and the hero was among them. Though the reasons being in the same natorious group which i hated earlier was different but the result was same and the outcome of the result was a bond in between me and the "Buffalo". And this way we started our professional cum personal joint vanture. Here if i will not mention few names then the story will be a shear fake so here it comes ....the cast and the crew of MIT moradabads notorious cum famous cum admirable group:
amitesh, divas, divakar, kohsheen, ashish batra, amraendra pandey , bipin bajpee, vivek tiwari, anurag soni, dheeraj singh. Though my name should be the last in the group :P but as i am a writer so i can put it in the middle or front or any where which i feel comfortable.
So by the end of the second year we all had set a history which i hope some times people of Ram Ganga Vihar, Harthala, Line Paar, Amar Ujjala News paper, Dean and EC HOD office, MIT Football ground used to mesmerize and neighbours of MIT Boys Hostel used to memorize specially "Tilak bhavan's " Front and side neighbours. :P For our extremely social affairs.
So the hero celebrated his second year of engineering. and became the 50% engineer in 2004.
Before i start writing it i have a moral as well as legal warning for you guys that all the thoughts are fictitious and there is no link in between the lines written here to any of the living or nonliving objects :) . If any resemblance is found then it will be treated mere as a coincidence.
So the story begins like this:
This was summer of 2002, more hot, more lethargic and more tough than any other summer. Sun was like the booming economy of India. As the time passes from morning 9 am to 12 am, so as the share market grows up to the unexpected height and so as the heat produced by the sun. May be both were competing with each other or may be India was heading towards the economic reform and the atmoshperic deform. Any thing.
Same year few fresh minds were destined to meet, to collaborate, to vacillate and for lot's of other task together. Place was moradabad . A place which was well know for the communal disharmony, which was well known for the Green Belt of farming it had and more over any thing if a say in one word it is city of brass. Yes this was BRASS CITY MORADABAD.
At the outskirts of this place which was newly developed .... with the ambiance of River RAMGANGA which is some how linked with the holy river ganga. With the fragrance of all greenery and the belt of wheat and mustard there was one place which was neither enough old nor new but OK this was good.. as all those who failed for IIT's thinks this can be the next place from where they can jump and they can again get there safe future. Yes this was MIT Moradabad. A 1996 estd college. College was having good repo in all the private colleges and was a good destination in between Delhi and Lucknow the two hubs of education.
They all were fresh enough to sing the song "Aankhon main sapne liye ghar se hum chal to diye" and this way the story begins though this was the huge crowd as doing an engineering was no more a specific course to be done it was mere a status symbol to attain so many of those who wanted to do a simple graduation for the shake of their family status opted for engineering and thus the crowd was divide in two one Hostalids and other one Localids. The line which i mentioned couple of heights above is more applicable to the second group. Though after joining the college life both the groups were having the same aims same thoughts and same dreams. Ya in some cases those were amplified and in some cases not amplified but OK. Now everyone of them wanted to be THE ENGINEER.
In this crew of 2500 students there was one fellow who was similar to Buffalo {if you talk about look}..... similar to Shiv Khera if you talk about thoughts {Note : I don't like shiv khera} ... similar to Saif Ali Khan of "Dil Chahta Hai " {if you exclude the wealth saif was having though the movie was not released until then }...... Similar to many unwanted disease which you never ever imagine for you. But a big butt :P he was a good Friend of liquor group, smoker group, and all other banned group of hostel. He was the first servant of the most notorious grand senior of our batch. He was the only one who been allotted a room not with us but with grand Seniors. So many unwanted, undesirable and unimaginable things happened to him in a very first year. I cant say much about these consequences with which he met but yes my opinion for him was that he is spoilt bread and in one line i say i hated him in first due to various reasons. Which i explained above.
But how come it affects him if he is the protongonist of the story so ... in the very first year what he did in the college was more indulging in the activity which i mentioned more grouping, more investment in terms of time and money to the group and :) and gossiping.
Sorry but i am not able to control my feelings about him and if i say that somebody if then would have come to me and ask what you say about his perforamnce .. i must said that he is going to be zero. But neither others nor the god has given a shit to my predictions and he was among the toppers in my batch. So this was the first success he got and by the end of the year few things which being genralized for him was as under:
1. He is good in planning.
2. He is good in partying.
3. He is good in team.
4. He is good in Cricket.
5. He has a best group of mit as a friend circle.
So above was the first year. And great achivements. Bravo. Mr. PlanMan.
This is a unanimous believe that second year brings a 3 fold swing to the first year students and same happened. Those who were the entrants in the notorious group became the shotters of that groups and the group was having there name on them. Which resulted in n number of Deciplinry action against him and other members means the guy who was just a beginner became the leader thanx the authorities and here comes the real realtion between me and the Hero of the story. Everytime anything wrong been done in the hostel or in the college or any where there few culprits which were undoubtly captured and fortunately me and the hero was among them. Though the reasons being in the same natorious group which i hated earlier was different but the result was same and the outcome of the result was a bond in between me and the "Buffalo". And this way we started our professional cum personal joint vanture. Here if i will not mention few names then the story will be a shear fake so here it comes ....the cast and the crew of MIT moradabads notorious cum famous cum admirable group:
amitesh, divas, divakar, kohsheen, ashish batra, amraendra pandey , bipin bajpee, vivek tiwari, anurag soni, dheeraj singh. Though my name should be the last in the group :P but as i am a writer so i can put it in the middle or front or any where which i feel comfortable.
So by the end of the second year we all had set a history which i hope some times people of Ram Ganga Vihar, Harthala, Line Paar, Amar Ujjala News paper, Dean and EC HOD office, MIT Football ground used to mesmerize and neighbours of MIT Boys Hostel used to memorize specially "Tilak bhavan's " Front and side neighbours. :P For our extremely social affairs.
So the hero celebrated his second year of engineering. and became the 50% engineer in 2004.
Monday, August 25, 2008
I have some queries.......and some solutions also...
If you ever have a common though as i am discussing ....you can go through the test case i am prsenting to you. A common proble which we all feel ...and realize at some point of our life.
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Vivek: motte kua ker reaha hai...kuch suggestion do..i am feeling ajeeb sa..not feeling good..two reasons...
Padne main kai baar aisa lagta hai this is the palce i am not fit properly;'''...The qualoty which i was having or what i thought that i had in my college days...that is not even good.....enough to door ki baat ho gayi hai
i can not live with a slow and mediocre approach towards any work i am with.
so i am finding it tought to njoy it...i am not able to be the proactive here..chakkar ye hai ki..i am very much suffering from inferriority complex.....achha main dikhta nahi..acchi main angreji nahi bollta..programming mujhe aati nahi hai...GK main main achha nahi hun.....gaana main ga nahi sakta......naach main nahi sakta
:(...ab ye mat kahiyega ki main aap ko pakka raha hun...:(...if you can believe on me i am right..per plz kuch suggest kero
sandeep: kk.....I got the prob...never think some is better than u
Vivek: :(
sandeep: believe in urself
Vivek: how it is possible...man
sandeep: count ur positive points
Vivek: some one good like you is in forn t of me
sandeep: so wht
Vivek: how it is poosible that oyu belive that you are the best :(
sandeep: see tht many r not as good looking as i m so u ll feel better u hav a charming personality ha thoda ganja hai
Vivek: saale maje mat le i am serious main ..sucide ker sakta hun
sandeep: bt itna chalta hia...nahi ;le raha sale....tujhe achha feel karwa raha hun......regarding ur english its far 2 better than mine...
Vivek: saale main apni angreji se bada paersan uhn....GK se........peresaan hun
sandeep: wait
Vivek: GS se peresaan hun....Programming se persaan hun
sandeep: abe sun sale
Vivek: kahan gaya be....haan bata...:(
sandeep: abe GL a agaya tha.......abe tujhe aisa kabse lagne lag gaya
Vivek: jab se main marwah ke sath rahne laga...
sandeep: main to khud tere confidence ka deewana hhun.....
Vivek: jab se main banglore aaya...........jab se maine IB M join kiya........saale sab angrej ki chodain paida ho gayin hain.......
sandeep: pagal hai sale....sab bakwas hai
:(
sandeep: pagal hai kya....sale English hi sab nahi hoti....meri to bahut gandi hai
Vivek: confidence to hoty hai be....
sandeep: ha hota hia....
Vivek: tery angreji aur to milke perfect hai..........saale
sandeep: but wo sab set ho jayega
Vivek: hope so.....
sandeep: abe hope so ki koi baat hi nahi hai.........sab ho hi jayega.......aur rahi Gk ki baat........to wo to paper padha kar magazines padha kar
Vivek: :(
sandeep: sale Ald wala n Muradabad wale Vivek ko yaad kar liya kar.....
Vivek: jab se NIT pahucha tab se choor ho gaya be........
sandeep: u ll feel better....
Vivek: koshish ker raha hun........saayad kuch sahi ho jaaye......:)
sandeep: abe aisa kya ho gaya ek dum..........bas abhi to sahi se training le.....
Vivek: haan wahi
sandeep: kisi ko kuch nahi aata.....
tab gusaa aati hai......
sandeep: abe jinhe ata hai thy r very less in nos.....
Vivek: ppl speaks so fluently ki i got absurd some time.........
thoda moral support to mil jat ahai.....
Vivek: saale to tujh se bhi to roj baat ho jaty hai...
sandeep: wht abt me...
Vivek: :(
sandeep: bt i m living...
Vivek: haan so to hai.......per to must hai be.........perfect type wala launda.....
sandeep: hr din yahi sochke jata hun ki aaj kuch achha hoga..........
Vivek: hoga be.....
sandeep: I m not perfect ...not at all....
Vivek: jaldi hi hum fir ek sath ek comp main chalegee.......
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Vivek: achhi wali
sandeep: :(
Vivek: jai mata di..........ab kya hua....to kyoun ro raha hai be
sandeep: hope so..........abe tu aise karega to mera to sara confidence hi khatam ho jayega..
Vivek: nahi be asia nahi hai.........hum sab sath main mast ho jaayenge.....
sandeep: so end of story is that we r gr8..we r gonna rock d world..........any how..so dnt wry.....chal ab main kuch khake aa raha hun......talk 2 u later......khush raho aabad raho.......:)..:) .... :)
Vivek: jai ho...k..TC
Tuesday, July 08, 2008
Mtech is finally over
I never thought even in my dream before march that some day i will become Master of Technology and that also in the field of Software Engineering. A tons of thax to my well wishers and god who helped me in the greatest gamble of my life. Here few points are worth mentioning Amit, Sandy, Rupesh, Harish, Manish, Arvind and many more whose name may be missed by me were the stepping stones to me. I am calling them all as points because all together have made my CPI = 7.
Though behind the scene i was having my past relationships with MITians and there support also which ever times made my confidence enough high to tackle with the situation. Whatever..., today i am a graduate with the highest degree and now the ways are open to move in the direction i want to.
Then where is the problem ..? Does it is in the package? Problem is in the knowledge i gain? Problem is in the market situation..? and some times problem is in my attitude...? Again i have question that where is the solution? And this time ans is simple and that is vivek go through your resume, your one hobby is introspection and retrospection. Why don't you try that?
Yes this is the time when i am living in the maximum possible fluctuations so it's better to analyze that what is good and what is bad in me so that i can put the ramifications before it create problem to me.
Till than this much is sufficient we will meet again ..shabba khair.
Though behind the scene i was having my past relationships with MITians and there support also which ever times made my confidence enough high to tackle with the situation. Whatever..., today i am a graduate with the highest degree and now the ways are open to move in the direction i want to.
Then where is the problem ..? Does it is in the package? Problem is in the knowledge i gain? Problem is in the market situation..? and some times problem is in my attitude...? Again i have question that where is the solution? And this time ans is simple and that is vivek go through your resume, your one hobby is introspection and retrospection. Why don't you try that?
Yes this is the time when i am living in the maximum possible fluctuations so it's better to analyze that what is good and what is bad in me so that i can put the ramifications before it create problem to me.
Till than this much is sufficient we will meet again ..shabba khair.
Sunday, June 22, 2008
High on the high way
Though this was not as high as the movie "Dus Kahaniyaan". Still we were high in our moods. As the troup of we seven are on move towards a destination we dont know and we never met earlier...........
Rest of the updates i will give to you when i will be back...
Till than keep readingggggggggg
So i am back here....Roadies of MNNIT allahabad started their journey from NIT campus and then first stopage was Swaraj Bhavan Museum though we want to take a closer look of Allahabad University but due to the high in speedometer we had just taken a glimpse ;) not more. Then the next destination was so obvious, and that was "Sangam". There we stayed for more than an hour and thanx to Arvind and Manish for such wonderful effort they made for getting snacks for us. It was really great to see all of us togather at Sangam Of three divine rivers Ganga, Jamuna, And Saraswati. This was our luck only that just before our presentation we got a chance to be there. This makes me always crazy to hear the enchantment of vedic mantrs and today it was beyond my expression, i was hearing all that at holiest place of universe, king of all the piligrims and that is one and only Prayaag. Jai Ganaga Miaya...Bum-Bhole.
Our's next destination was the best example of hydrolic mechanism "The Nainy Bridge". It was like swirling device which we were feeling even with the move of Truck and Marshells. Yes Vibrations we were feeling were vibrant enough to make us more crazy than we already were. And we were really enjoying that. We had also gone for photo session with roadie spirit :). Really having friends, bikes and time specially when you are feeling that you want to make this time a memory, there is certainly no good option than to go for a long drive on highway. And the same we were doing. As we all know this is the last trip we are having togather in Allahabad. No one know the future but reality is that we all are going to miss these college days for forever.
By D way then this was the time for long awaited Dhaba night and we all were searching for a good motel. and offffff we haven't got it again but as we all know there is nothing in this world which doesen't have it's consequence and so as here. We got "Sai Dham" A place which is divine for me and for crores who believe in truths. Jai Sai Baba ki.
So for nourishing ourself we were again for a long run to our favouirte Sri Ram hotel at Railway station. And there we had taken our so called fixed menu for all time ;) and for any case, lunch, dinner or whatever you talk.
Finally we were back to track and then a no stopage run towards NIT Allahabad.
In whole i had missed one thing and that is to pay my regrads to those who had given us their bikes. Arun sir, Amit Raj sir, Shaym, Khatri and Jaat. And also to Sandeep who was brave enough to drive that scooter.
Team it's time to say good night. Take a sweet nap as it is enough late and i know that you don't have much time for tomorrow morning.
Roadies: Amit, Arvind, Harish, Manish, Rupesh, Sandeep, Vivek
Rest of the updates i will give to you when i will be back...
Till than keep readingggggggggg
So i am back here....Roadies of MNNIT allahabad started their journey from NIT campus and then first stopage was Swaraj Bhavan Museum though we want to take a closer look of Allahabad University but due to the high in speedometer we had just taken a glimpse ;) not more. Then the next destination was so obvious, and that was "Sangam". There we stayed for more than an hour and thanx to Arvind and Manish for such wonderful effort they made for getting snacks for us. It was really great to see all of us togather at Sangam Of three divine rivers Ganga, Jamuna, And Saraswati. This was our luck only that just before our presentation we got a chance to be there. This makes me always crazy to hear the enchantment of vedic mantrs and today it was beyond my expression, i was hearing all that at holiest place of universe, king of all the piligrims and that is one and only Prayaag. Jai Ganaga Miaya...Bum-Bhole.
Our's next destination was the best example of hydrolic mechanism "The Nainy Bridge". It was like swirling device which we were feeling even with the move of Truck and Marshells. Yes Vibrations we were feeling were vibrant enough to make us more crazy than we already were. And we were really enjoying that. We had also gone for photo session with roadie spirit :). Really having friends, bikes and time specially when you are feeling that you want to make this time a memory, there is certainly no good option than to go for a long drive on highway. And the same we were doing. As we all know this is the last trip we are having togather in Allahabad. No one know the future but reality is that we all are going to miss these college days for forever.
By D way then this was the time for long awaited Dhaba night and we all were searching for a good motel. and offffff we haven't got it again but as we all know there is nothing in this world which doesen't have it's consequence and so as here. We got "Sai Dham" A place which is divine for me and for crores who believe in truths. Jai Sai Baba ki.
So for nourishing ourself we were again for a long run to our favouirte Sri Ram hotel at Railway station. And there we had taken our so called fixed menu for all time ;) and for any case, lunch, dinner or whatever you talk.
Finally we were back to track and then a no stopage run towards NIT Allahabad.
In whole i had missed one thing and that is to pay my regrads to those who had given us their bikes. Arun sir, Amit Raj sir, Shaym, Khatri and Jaat. And also to Sandeep who was brave enough to drive that scooter.
Team it's time to say good night. Take a sweet nap as it is enough late and i know that you don't have much time for tomorrow morning.
Roadies: Amit, Arvind, Harish, Manish, Rupesh, Sandeep, Vivek
Saturday, May 03, 2008
A philoshpy which can make you worthy of life
I am in love with you irrespective of what you have and what you can give to me...may be! I am your best friend no matter in the situation we are living.... again may be ! We are the relatives the and the blood relation is always workable irrespective of the cause in which it is being applied....may be!.
These all are not only the situations where we usually come down and think that why this happened though everything was running smoothly. And the whole philosophical mouth got shout as no one is having the real ans of this turmoil of faith and relation. As in the previous post i suggested that may be the life is something which is all about give and take then why people are still interested in great love great friendship and great and liable relationships. Just because they want they can't get as these all things can only be acquired through a long and tough phase of examination.
Your friend is in tough situation he needs your help and you wait until comes you and ask for the same. Your love want the momentum though you too want the same but you expect it from her side as this is sth you can't compromise with. You know that your simple presence makes someone very happy but that you never want as you never want to be simple and specially when it concerned to the others ;-) what a joke.
This all is happening and still you sometimes cry for life for friends and for relations. Why this dual characterization? Why you cheat yourself just because of you are enervated you vacillate among the two points. And then blame others that the relation is not maintained by them.
So finally the cream is that no one is responsible for others and everyone is responsible of every other ;-) thus living happily is no mare a cause of living satisfied as the want and need you pursue is just because you persue not because you are passionate about.
So till than we will not put the remedy here we will never get the soul of relation no matter how many count we increase in out friend list.
These all are not only the situations where we usually come down and think that why this happened though everything was running smoothly. And the whole philosophical mouth got shout as no one is having the real ans of this turmoil of faith and relation. As in the previous post i suggested that may be the life is something which is all about give and take then why people are still interested in great love great friendship and great and liable relationships. Just because they want they can't get as these all things can only be acquired through a long and tough phase of examination.
Your friend is in tough situation he needs your help and you wait until comes you and ask for the same. Your love want the momentum though you too want the same but you expect it from her side as this is sth you can't compromise with. You know that your simple presence makes someone very happy but that you never want as you never want to be simple and specially when it concerned to the others ;-) what a joke.
This all is happening and still you sometimes cry for life for friends and for relations. Why this dual characterization? Why you cheat yourself just because of you are enervated you vacillate among the two points. And then blame others that the relation is not maintained by them.
So finally the cream is that no one is responsible for others and everyone is responsible of every other ;-) thus living happily is no mare a cause of living satisfied as the want and need you pursue is just because you persue not because you are passionate about.
So till than we will not put the remedy here we will never get the soul of relation no matter how many count we increase in out friend list.
Thursday, May 01, 2008
Your welcome is subject to the ornaments you have
You are going somewhere and you want people to get along with you then what is the possibility that you will get them on your side, Let's have a look:
1. You think that you are convivial and eat drink and be merry is your slogan for life then apart from the slogan you must have or you need money to buy that "eat, drink, and for being merry". If you are not having that soon you will change your slogan to "Life is all about give and take".
2. Though you are not brilliant still you smoothly driving your cart of academics say thanx to god and your friends as the circumstances they had made for you which are not only favourable to you but also making other people convinced to put the burden of yours at their back on their expenses. The day is not for away when you feel that people are feeling you tough and unbearable so make your self worthy to have that confidence and love of GOD and Friends.
3. Your coolest friend some times make you think twice or thrice about your or his behaviour not because of you had changed but because of the suitability you are having for the friendship, and this requires changes and compatibility with the market so better go for servicing than people through you out and buy a new one.
4. Parting is not bad at all after all this is the span of life when each and every moment requires some zeal and enthusiasm to be lived so if you are thinking that at any point of time you are loosing that passion it directly indicates that you need to wake up and upgradation is required otherwise time of farewell is near to you by the friend's with whom you lived and sang the most sentimental songs of friendship.
So i am not saying that there is any harm in you or in friends or the definition of life is being changed this is all about the professionalism which has under covered the relations under the banner that the suitability of yours is the requirements of others and both in combination always forms the best example of friendship. So make it sure that though friendship is forever, friends need to be re conceived after a specified time span which is good and healthy for the long term relation.
1. You think that you are convivial and eat drink and be merry is your slogan for life then apart from the slogan you must have or you need money to buy that "eat, drink, and for being merry". If you are not having that soon you will change your slogan to "Life is all about give and take".
2. Though you are not brilliant still you smoothly driving your cart of academics say thanx to god and your friends as the circumstances they had made for you which are not only favourable to you but also making other people convinced to put the burden of yours at their back on their expenses. The day is not for away when you feel that people are feeling you tough and unbearable so make your self worthy to have that confidence and love of GOD and Friends.
3. Your coolest friend some times make you think twice or thrice about your or his behaviour not because of you had changed but because of the suitability you are having for the friendship, and this requires changes and compatibility with the market so better go for servicing than people through you out and buy a new one.
4. Parting is not bad at all after all this is the span of life when each and every moment requires some zeal and enthusiasm to be lived so if you are thinking that at any point of time you are loosing that passion it directly indicates that you need to wake up and upgradation is required otherwise time of farewell is near to you by the friend's with whom you lived and sang the most sentimental songs of friendship.
So i am not saying that there is any harm in you or in friends or the definition of life is being changed this is all about the professionalism which has under covered the relations under the banner that the suitability of yours is the requirements of others and both in combination always forms the best example of friendship. So make it sure that though friendship is forever, friends need to be re conceived after a specified time span which is good and healthy for the long term relation.
Sunday, January 20, 2008
What Should I do ?
Some of my frineds usually say to me that this profession is not my cup of tea and i have to move some where else. Exactly where i have to go they never told to me but yes they realize me that here i am not ablo to use my potential properly as i can do it somewhere else. They do say that some times stage performances as an actor, as an anchor and some times as a consultant i am fit.
Now here comes the opinion of my own soul which takes a deep breath and shut's all of it's door so that not even air is allowed to come out so how can i judge the right way if my soul is not permitting me or better i say not showing me the way i have to choose for being good in my profession.
Ok when some times i even thought to change the stream then the so called fear for the uncertainties and unsuccessful grasp and through me in the net of if or if not and here all the creativity and strength lost which i gained through the suggestions of my friends....
Now here comes the opinion of my own soul which takes a deep breath and shut's all of it's door so that not even air is allowed to come out so how can i judge the right way if my soul is not permitting me or better i say not showing me the way i have to choose for being good in my profession.
Ok when some times i even thought to change the stream then the so called fear for the uncertainties and unsuccessful grasp and through me in the net of if or if not and here all the creativity and strength lost which i gained through the suggestions of my friends....
Friday, September 07, 2007
Ek Ruthe to naye dost bana lete hain.....
Waqt ki dor mere dil ko khichty kyoun hai ,
Wo yaad aaj bhi aankhon ko sinchty kyoun hai,
Main bina uske ek pal kabhi na ji paaya,
Jindagi mujhse is kadar rutthi kyoun hai.
Wo najar aur wo hothon ki narm pankhuriyaan,
wo naram gaalon ki maalika hai mery ranjhaadiyan,
usko kyoun kaid kiya hai bhala muquaadar ne,
jindagi de ke mohabbat ko lut ti kyoun hai .
Waise behtar tha tera mujh se door youn jana,
Apni duniya ko khud se lutna jala jana,
Bahut dekha tune manjar mery ruswaai ka,
Jisko dekha nahi wo iskq parkhti kyoun hai.
Aao hum fir se nayi dor bana lete hain,
Jukhmi dil hai use ek oor chupa lete hain,
waise mujheko bhi pata hai aur tumko bhi pata,
Ek ruthe to naye dost bana lete hain.
Wo yaad aaj bhi aankhon ko sinchty kyoun hai,
Main bina uske ek pal kabhi na ji paaya,
Jindagi mujhse is kadar rutthi kyoun hai.
Wo najar aur wo hothon ki narm pankhuriyaan,
wo naram gaalon ki maalika hai mery ranjhaadiyan,
usko kyoun kaid kiya hai bhala muquaadar ne,
jindagi de ke mohabbat ko lut ti kyoun hai .
Waise behtar tha tera mujh se door youn jana,
Apni duniya ko khud se lutna jala jana,
Bahut dekha tune manjar mery ruswaai ka,
Jisko dekha nahi wo iskq parkhti kyoun hai.
Aao hum fir se nayi dor bana lete hain,
Jukhmi dil hai use ek oor chupa lete hain,
waise mujheko bhi pata hai aur tumko bhi pata,
Ek ruthe to naye dost bana lete hain.
Sunday, September 02, 2007
Meeting The ultimate...
Though the title resembles with one of the most common thought that comes into the mind that, might i read OSHO some where but up to this moment i haven't. Ya i am deciding to read it and very soon i will come with the so called what we usually say is "Review".Then what is this "meeting to the ultimate" is all about? Does it is something which has given me the opportunity to being the witness of divine. No not at all, this is not like that. Then what exactly this is all about?.
Yup the ans is, today i come to know the truth again that the best competitor of your own is your mind with whom you have to compete everyday and once it will get the level of satisfaction you will get everything even the level of Divinity. And surprisingly i got these from those guys who are not feeling this at all as up to the level i know them they are the most unsatisfied guy over this MNNIT. One is close friend of mine and other is the one to whom i am understanding now a days.
The most intolerable guy in some situations when you feel that you are a social animal and the most desirable fellow when you are thinking about breaking the rules. So the condition is this that neither you can say that you are a pure social animal and nor you can say that you never to be the one who break the rules in the way as we breath normally we can call this as "the habit of admiring the negative energy".So the first Baibhav is simply the great in many senses as he is not only MNNITian but also my younger brother so i can not only rely upon him in many ways but also i learn t many things from him and the second one ...any wild guesses yes you are right but this time i am bother to admire this negative energy ..
Yup he is the one who got the hatred by the majority of the public still a notorious guy with a great way of presenting himself with the impressive knowledge of the vast areas though that knowledge is never going to help you as this is not in the dictionary of the Mr Deependra Vikram singh as he is not at all reliable and yes this is right in the best of my knowledge that though he may be capable enough for many of the job still he will leave you in the panic and not help you intellectually and this puts a great question on his credibility...whatever....i know that this is ok up to the time you are in the boredom of this college otherwise you have to adopt the positive energy even for the first breath of the survival.....
Yup the ans is, today i come to know the truth again that the best competitor of your own is your mind with whom you have to compete everyday and once it will get the level of satisfaction you will get everything even the level of Divinity. And surprisingly i got these from those guys who are not feeling this at all as up to the level i know them they are the most unsatisfied guy over this MNNIT. One is close friend of mine and other is the one to whom i am understanding now a days.
The most intolerable guy in some situations when you feel that you are a social animal and the most desirable fellow when you are thinking about breaking the rules. So the condition is this that neither you can say that you are a pure social animal and nor you can say that you never to be the one who break the rules in the way as we breath normally we can call this as "the habit of admiring the negative energy".So the first Baibhav is simply the great in many senses as he is not only MNNITian but also my younger brother so i can not only rely upon him in many ways but also i learn t many things from him and the second one ...any wild guesses yes you are right but this time i am bother to admire this negative energy ..
Yup he is the one who got the hatred by the majority of the public still a notorious guy with a great way of presenting himself with the impressive knowledge of the vast areas though that knowledge is never going to help you as this is not in the dictionary of the Mr Deependra Vikram singh as he is not at all reliable and yes this is right in the best of my knowledge that though he may be capable enough for many of the job still he will leave you in the panic and not help you intellectually and this puts a great question on his credibility...whatever....i know that this is ok up to the time you are in the boredom of this college otherwise you have to adopt the positive energy even for the first breath of the survival.....
Tuesday, June 05, 2007
Pressure of being notified in between the bosses...
This is always an issue which increases the heartbeats of ours that how we be so successful so glorious among those who are already had achieved the sunshine mode of living. Yup this is the same situation now for me , in one side my maternal are growing fast in other side my colleagues are hitting hard and in between these two i am still striving for the golden chance or may be i am not interpreting the thing's in the right way which is again enhancing the difficulty of mine.
Saturday, April 28, 2007
A one more inspirational evening...
This is not at all a bad idea to write sth just after you come back from somewhere and you feel that those moments were having some golden memories and moreover some thoughtful ideas to remember, so this is the whole sole aim to right this post. Though today's evening was not at all common as today two great thing happened as we met today to all of our Seniors collectively and also we got few cool sides of the host of the party...The IBMer and now The ORACLE man ..
Yes friends today it was the party for the Grand success of MTech Final year that one of them, Anuj sir got the highest package ever in the history of MNNIT Mtech and that was the great start up for we guys as already we are getting enough interface to the College so one right shot and the best job will be ours and the same was said by all the Seniors that the success mantra is always "Determination and commitment".
So go for that and continue the story started by Anuj sir.....
Monday, October 09, 2006
The epiphamy of confusion..
I always find the situation either this way round or other way round that i suffer from the situation of liability among my colleges i don't know why the cacophony created but it is.
As today one of my colleague was seeking the clarification from on the issue which never raises from my side but it was at the verge of their side.May be the verbose attitude of mine is responsible for it or may some other reasons are responsible but the ultimate effect is that they think that i am having some short of ire as per they are in concern , but the question of thousand dollar is that why should i have the problem we are here again for fulfilling our individual desires in the comparative and relative manner so whatever is going on is not should be like this.
By d way which per my consideration is right that, the truth always comes without the if's and but's but for that i along with other have to wait and watch.
And up to then i have to bear with the situation. Love to you friends i am not at all freak as you are thinking.
As today one of my colleague was seeking the clarification from on the issue which never raises from my side but it was at the verge of their side.May be the verbose attitude of mine is responsible for it or may some other reasons are responsible but the ultimate effect is that they think that i am having some short of ire as per they are in concern , but the question of thousand dollar is that why should i have the problem we are here again for fulfilling our individual desires in the comparative and relative manner so whatever is going on is not should be like this.
By d way which per my consideration is right that, the truth always comes without the if's and but's but for that i along with other have to wait and watch.
And up to then i have to bear with the situation. Love to you friends i am not at all freak as you are thinking.
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