Destiny refers to a predetermined course of events. It may be conceived as a predetermined future, whether in general or of an individual. It is a concept based on the belief that there is a fixed natural order to the universe.
This definition may be help you when you want to give debate on this topic as this is as concrete as the concrete itself and life is not always concrete. :-)
Some times it happens that you don’t know what life is all about. It is smooth as you can’t believe sometimes and it is zigzag as you never want to see that phase again and this might be possible that you met with a situation where you feel that ohh!! crap what the hell is this and what next? And here the decision which you takes to survive in that time is the overall replication of your efforts, your dreams and your capabilities. And then we can say destiny plays it’s role.
So destiny is the mixture which comes into the concern when your dreams met with the commitment, loyalty, and hard work along with the right guidance and motivation of your near and dear ones. The last few of words of last line were quite obvious and difficult also. Indeed people can have everything, they put all efforts with full zeal, nut’s still they never stand what is Destiny? This is because the don’t have right guidance and motivation of their near and dear one’s, mind it.
So don’t search here and there if you want to know that why you being made for, what is your destiny and why? All these answers are quite simple and obvious and you can get it very easily. Just make the environment as i thought and explained above.
Saturday, December 19, 2009
What you see when your eyes are close
Dreams are not those which you see while you sleep dreams are the facts which never ever allows you to sleep: Great observation. Certainly if you are truthful to your commitment you will never be able to sleep untill and unless your commitment get accomplished and so in the case of dream.
Many of us will be agree with the fact that sooner or later we all have a master dream and for achieving that we always have some landmarks to achieve, we can say them as a partial dream, in a day at least once that master dream comes into our eyes realizes us that we have a work or a commitment remained to do and thus we have no right to sit and to take rest at least until the dream get realized and now the loyalty and the passion comes into the concern which decides that whether or not you are loyal towards your own dream.
Some day back i had seen a movie “The Terminal” and at the very moment i understood the necessities for commitment and passion for your goal and dream. And then the chain begins one after another i encountered so many examples through movie, reality and fictions that yes…
There is no sleeping pill which cause a dream for you this is passion, love and the one and only loyal commitment which cause a dream for you which you see only when you are unconsciously awaking.
How many of us belongs to the category who believe in it might be very less and that’s why this world have a phrase like “Dream is an illusion hard to realize and tough to see”. Hope you will not be the part of this.
Many of us will be agree with the fact that sooner or later we all have a master dream and for achieving that we always have some landmarks to achieve, we can say them as a partial dream, in a day at least once that master dream comes into our eyes realizes us that we have a work or a commitment remained to do and thus we have no right to sit and to take rest at least until the dream get realized and now the loyalty and the passion comes into the concern which decides that whether or not you are loyal towards your own dream.
Some day back i had seen a movie “The Terminal” and at the very moment i understood the necessities for commitment and passion for your goal and dream. And then the chain begins one after another i encountered so many examples through movie, reality and fictions that yes…
There is no sleeping pill which cause a dream for you this is passion, love and the one and only loyal commitment which cause a dream for you which you see only when you are unconsciously awaking.
How many of us belongs to the category who believe in it might be very less and that’s why this world have a phrase like “Dream is an illusion hard to realize and tough to see”. Hope you will not be the part of this.
I am no more mediocre … I am the best
“I am no where going to fight like a moron for such a life where everytime people fight for the excellence”, and as soon as this is your line, i believe you are not a successful one. As the very much accepted defination, though i am not saying that success can be defined as it is relative, is always believe that in the area you are putting your leg your are among the best.
So being the best is no where an easy task you have to put everything of yours at the stake and then only you will become the best, whether this is the area of academics or personality or in genral life. Everytime you have to put the biggest strength of your’s for becoming the best or among the best. Because this is all about balance and the way you thought. May be you want to have all the things means you want to be the jack of all, O.K., it means you are the best as per as the balance making is in concern, as for becoming the jack of all the excellence is not requires in the areas you are in but in a way you are putting all those togather.
And i thought today i ralized it, can’t say up to what extent i am soleley in it but let’s see how many of you can find it.
Good day, all the best.
So being the best is no where an easy task you have to put everything of yours at the stake and then only you will become the best, whether this is the area of academics or personality or in genral life. Everytime you have to put the biggest strength of your’s for becoming the best or among the best. Because this is all about balance and the way you thought. May be you want to have all the things means you want to be the jack of all, O.K., it means you are the best as per as the balance making is in concern, as for becoming the jack of all the excellence is not requires in the areas you are in but in a way you are putting all those togather.
And i thought today i ralized it, can’t say up to what extent i am soleley in it but let’s see how many of you can find it.
Good day, all the best.
तुम्हारी याद में एक ख़त
आज कुछ अजीब सा हूँ मैं…बोझिल सा थका हुआ
शायद कुछ खो गया है मेरा…
या शायद जींदगी नाराज है मुझसे…या शायद कोई और वजह है |
यूँ तो सब वैसा ही है पहले जैसा …. पर आदतें अजब सी लग रहीं हैं..
दिल तो अब भी वही है पर क्योँ लगता है जैसे..
ख्वाहिशें अजब से हैं…
हो सकता है वो याद आ रही है इसलिए…
या ये भी हो सकता है की मैं उस से दूर आ गया हूँ इसलिए…
जो भी हो कुछ वजह भी और कोई सिरा भी है |
शाम उसको देखो तो कुछ पहचाना सा लगा …
वो अनजाना सा चेहरा कुछ जाना पहचाना सा लगा..
वही हरकत …. वो शरारत… वो मासूम सा भोला सा मुखडा …
बिलकुल अपने आशियाने सा लगा |
सच में अगर ये मोहब्बत की शुरुआत है तो पडाव क्या होंगे…मंजिलें क्या होंगी…
और तब क्या होगा जब हम साथ होंगे…
एक दुसरे के साथ होंगे…. कुछ तो होगा….कुछ नया ….अजब सा …
जिसकी कोई वजह नहीं होगी..जो बस होगा…होने के लिए…
खो जाने के लिए…और शायद…
ये कहने के लिए…
” की दूर तो हैं तुमसे हम .. पर मोहब्बत पे रश्क रखना…..
गर जमाना खिलाफत में है .. जमाने से शर्त रखना..
इश्क गर है खुदा तो खुदा संभालेगा…
बस जरा ये करना.. कि हौसले बुलंद रखना… “
शायद कुछ खो गया है मेरा…
या शायद जींदगी नाराज है मुझसे…या शायद कोई और वजह है |
यूँ तो सब वैसा ही है पहले जैसा …. पर आदतें अजब सी लग रहीं हैं..
दिल तो अब भी वही है पर क्योँ लगता है जैसे..
ख्वाहिशें अजब से हैं…
हो सकता है वो याद आ रही है इसलिए…
या ये भी हो सकता है की मैं उस से दूर आ गया हूँ इसलिए…
जो भी हो कुछ वजह भी और कोई सिरा भी है |
शाम उसको देखो तो कुछ पहचाना सा लगा …
वो अनजाना सा चेहरा कुछ जाना पहचाना सा लगा..
वही हरकत …. वो शरारत… वो मासूम सा भोला सा मुखडा …
बिलकुल अपने आशियाने सा लगा |
सच में अगर ये मोहब्बत की शुरुआत है तो पडाव क्या होंगे…मंजिलें क्या होंगी…
और तब क्या होगा जब हम साथ होंगे…
एक दुसरे के साथ होंगे…. कुछ तो होगा….कुछ नया ….अजब सा …
जिसकी कोई वजह नहीं होगी..जो बस होगा…होने के लिए…
खो जाने के लिए…और शायद…
ये कहने के लिए…
” की दूर तो हैं तुमसे हम .. पर मोहब्बत पे रश्क रखना…..
गर जमाना खिलाफत में है .. जमाने से शर्त रखना..
इश्क गर है खुदा तो खुदा संभालेगा…
बस जरा ये करना.. कि हौसले बुलंद रखना… “
Life is all about analysis…or what?
After giving three, four months of my life to the much awaited corporate and business oriented people i come to know that life’s definition which i read in the very beginning of my life still holds good, that is “Life is all about experiencing it…living it and reflecting it.” Though i still believe that there are many points where your interference with the life becomes effective and can add value to it but more over anything this is your way of perception which deals with you and mobilize you to live, respond and run.
“Dostana” reflects the same. The compromises we makes during the initial phase becomes the compulsions at the later stage. And that changes your destiny. So is that mean that we should n,t compromise. No! not exactly, compromises are good if they are not in the same line where your priorities are lying, where your growth is lying and where your values are nurturing. May be it is good for short term benefit but for a longer run you are going to be at a losers end for sure.
“Dostana” reflects the same. The compromises we makes during the initial phase becomes the compulsions at the later stage. And that changes your destiny. So is that mean that we should n,t compromise. No! not exactly, compromises are good if they are not in the same line where your priorities are lying, where your growth is lying and where your values are nurturing. May be it is good for short term benefit but for a longer run you are going to be at a losers end for sure.
My Life’s Wanna be….
I hurt him … and then i started writing… I hurt another him and then i thought of writing.. i quarreled many of him and then emotions and intellects started pinching me to write and this way the post came up.
The Question and central idea behind every above thing was common and that was “why we make the majority of followers why we are not the one who made up and run the world.. the big question mark”? I know i am sounding more like a topic of philosophy and a bit of “Paulo Coleho” style.. of arguing but i cant’s help it as this is the only way to start up and to make myself relaxed.
I know i haven’t achieved anything remarkable in past 25 years and…. so as many of us. But is it mean that i can’t have the hope of doing that remarkable thing someday…
I know that i am no where good than the average Indian people but is it means that i can’t upgrade my self.
One more thing which i know and i certainly believe is “change is a process which may take a long interval of time to show the effect but that happen for sure”. And that’s why i feel that i am fighting …arguing and sometimes criticizing and being criticized.
Lets talk about it in a more explanatory way….
In childhood everyone has an abstract thought of becoming someone in the life, having a worth living lifestyle and motto. Sooner we became older that abstract thing diverges in two ways. In first way which the majority follows is that … we are now having the illusionist view of our destiny and goal which is more or less unclear and ambiguous. While in other case it becomes more concrete and straightforward.
Now the big why ???????????
Reason is simple though the process is tough ..In the first case we are concerned with the thought of balanced and average life which is secure, less risky and ok type, though we never dream’t for this but still that holds good as we have a don’t mind attitude with us ever time we felt bad about our life.
In the second case we are the one who are selfish …self concerned and …. having a critical and analytical approach towards life.. these people are emotional though they know the technicality of it. These people are risk oriented though they knew the magic of taking risk.. though they love following the known path ..still they love being explorer.And many more.
Yes i am the one who belongs to the first category … yes i am the one who dream’t for the second category as every other do.. yes i am the one who indirectly criticized others for the way they live and also the vice-verse.
So what next… should i read “The monk who sold his Ferrari” or should i read the international best seller “The Alchemist”. Or “The Kite Runner” will help me. I personally believe that nothing will do the favor neither to you.. nor to anyone of those including me who belongs to the first category as the book may be written by the people who belongs to the first or second category but is no where a classic way of transforming yourself.
And thus the final conclusion which i am getting is that “Life may have some sortcuts… some recipes but someone’s life wanna be can not be copied .. can not be mapped with it’s previous theories”.
The Question and central idea behind every above thing was common and that was “why we make the majority of followers why we are not the one who made up and run the world.. the big question mark”? I know i am sounding more like a topic of philosophy and a bit of “Paulo Coleho” style.. of arguing but i cant’s help it as this is the only way to start up and to make myself relaxed.
I know i haven’t achieved anything remarkable in past 25 years and…. so as many of us. But is it mean that i can’t have the hope of doing that remarkable thing someday…
I know that i am no where good than the average Indian people but is it means that i can’t upgrade my self.
One more thing which i know and i certainly believe is “change is a process which may take a long interval of time to show the effect but that happen for sure”. And that’s why i feel that i am fighting …arguing and sometimes criticizing and being criticized.
Lets talk about it in a more explanatory way….
In childhood everyone has an abstract thought of becoming someone in the life, having a worth living lifestyle and motto. Sooner we became older that abstract thing diverges in two ways. In first way which the majority follows is that … we are now having the illusionist view of our destiny and goal which is more or less unclear and ambiguous. While in other case it becomes more concrete and straightforward.
Now the big why ???????????
Reason is simple though the process is tough ..In the first case we are concerned with the thought of balanced and average life which is secure, less risky and ok type, though we never dream’t for this but still that holds good as we have a don’t mind attitude with us ever time we felt bad about our life.
In the second case we are the one who are selfish …self concerned and …. having a critical and analytical approach towards life.. these people are emotional though they know the technicality of it. These people are risk oriented though they knew the magic of taking risk.. though they love following the known path ..still they love being explorer.And many more.
Yes i am the one who belongs to the first category … yes i am the one who dream’t for the second category as every other do.. yes i am the one who indirectly criticized others for the way they live and also the vice-verse.
So what next… should i read “The monk who sold his Ferrari” or should i read the international best seller “The Alchemist”. Or “The Kite Runner” will help me. I personally believe that nothing will do the favor neither to you.. nor to anyone of those including me who belongs to the first category as the book may be written by the people who belongs to the first or second category but is no where a classic way of transforming yourself.
And thus the final conclusion which i am getting is that “Life may have some sortcuts… some recipes but someone’s life wanna be can not be copied .. can not be mapped with it’s previous theories”.
The New Year Resolution….
This post could be awarded as a senseless one when you think that after ten days of a new year why the post came into existence…much like the whirlling going on “Satyam” issue a thought came in mind why not begin with a new resoulution so that we will not commit a mistake as “Ramlingam Raju ” has committed.
Though if i tell the truth every year i had some reasons to start up with some of the new resolutions and quite a few reasons for breaking them just after a couple of days. Unprofessinal but true. Committing a committment is easy but fullfilling them is tough.
If we take a look arroud fealing ourself as a professionl then only one thing come up with the brightest way and that is fear. You talk about share market, you think about IT Industry, you have a look on political scenerio, you discuss about the global business .. anything and everthing is so much nasty that making a resolution is like going for a revolution. When the future is with question marks.. when your plans are in the analysis phase … when the scenerio is like a nightmare….. then what could be our new year resolution.
Elder and grown up used to say that in the situation like this when nothing is clear one thing should be clear and that is your mind of not getting worried.. not getting tensioned…. not getting illousionist and moreover anything it should not be getting blocked. Then only you can live the year over year with n numbers of new years and resolutions.
Though if i tell the truth every year i had some reasons to start up with some of the new resolutions and quite a few reasons for breaking them just after a couple of days. Unprofessinal but true. Committing a committment is easy but fullfilling them is tough.
If we take a look arroud fealing ourself as a professionl then only one thing come up with the brightest way and that is fear. You talk about share market, you think about IT Industry, you have a look on political scenerio, you discuss about the global business .. anything and everthing is so much nasty that making a resolution is like going for a revolution. When the future is with question marks.. when your plans are in the analysis phase … when the scenerio is like a nightmare….. then what could be our new year resolution.
Elder and grown up used to say that in the situation like this when nothing is clear one thing should be clear and that is your mind of not getting worried.. not getting tensioned…. not getting illousionist and moreover anything it should not be getting blocked. Then only you can live the year over year with n numbers of new years and resolutions.
2009 Year of Perfection for Me and for IBM
Perfection = Perfect + Action
Once we start realizing that what does perfection really meant to us .. a lot of things come to us one by one like the bombordment of thought and at that very moment we lost the perfection of defining it. So this is something which is cluelesly a way to live in a continous path of betterment. May be the thing is which perfect for a particular time period is just ok for another time frame. So one thing which clearly sounded is “When you aim for perfection, you discover it’s a moving target.” And so as you have to move accordingly with the same relative pace which it requires. And believe me when we start thinking about perfction is the definite moment when we realized it that we are not perfect at all and then we develop some confidence to chase it, to find it. There are nothing perfecct in this world living or nonliving, only perfect intentions are running which motivates us to achieve this. And perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away.
The very fact that everything is changing is a sign that we all strive for perfection, knowingly or unknowingly. Realizing ourselves is perfection. Perfection is when everything is in its place and correct and seeking for perfection is a beautiful journey.
Once we start realizing that what does perfection really meant to us .. a lot of things come to us one by one like the bombordment of thought and at that very moment we lost the perfection of defining it. So this is something which is cluelesly a way to live in a continous path of betterment. May be the thing is which perfect for a particular time period is just ok for another time frame. So one thing which clearly sounded is “When you aim for perfection, you discover it’s a moving target.” And so as you have to move accordingly with the same relative pace which it requires. And believe me when we start thinking about perfction is the definite moment when we realized it that we are not perfect at all and then we develop some confidence to chase it, to find it. There are nothing perfecct in this world living or nonliving, only perfect intentions are running which motivates us to achieve this. And perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away.
The very fact that everything is changing is a sign that we all strive for perfection, knowingly or unknowingly. Realizing ourselves is perfection. Perfection is when everything is in its place and correct and seeking for perfection is a beautiful journey.
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