Success>Failure>Dreams>Destiny>Defeat .What else is there in life?

Success>Failure>Dreams>Destiny>Defeat .What else is there in life?…
This looks like either OSHO or Sri Sri Sri…somebody is going to put some sort of inspirational lecture on this high handed topic. But no this is something which is one of the most common thought coming in everyone’s mind, and that also so frequently that i can say at least two times in every day.

Why i am running high?
What are my goals?
Why the failure is sad?
What is success?
Why ever problem and solution have a successor?
When we will stop chasing our unrealistic dreams?

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So this is something which every body want’s, thinks, and feel. What all we can do to achieve we want….

I have something stolen from AIRTEL, for you which i believe is the best thing to tell:

Nigahen nigahon…..se mila kar toh dekho.
Naye logon se rishta …bana kar toh dekho.
Hasratein dil mein dabane se kya haasil hoga.
apne hoth… ……hila kar toh dekho.
Khamoshi se kab hoti hai…khwahishein poori,
dil ki baat bata kar toh dekho.
“Jo hai dil mein usey kar… …do bayaan.
Khud ko ek baar jata kar toh dekho.
Aasmaan……simat jayega tumhare aaghosh mein,
chahat ki bahein phaila kar toh dekho…
Dil ki baat bata kar toh dekho…

This is something which i feel is really the replication of the path of success. This is a way of living which tells that though we all have different dreams, different aims and different priorities, still we need something in common. As over any thing, we are living for a life full of enjoyment and certainly “Life is a succession of moments. To live each one is to succeed.”….

So jio jam ke jio.

Life–> I am searching you …..

No..no..no Dont expect it as a philoshiphical or spritual or mental post [:P]. As i dont want to put you in the truma of tough sessions like yoga or something. I just wanted to know more that why i encountered a problem with the thought “That —> Life is something which i am searching and i am not sure about the success of my search”. I really hate whenever i think or work around google. Obviously yaar how smart a software it is, searches all along the web thousands and sometimes millions of pages related to life and concepts…. jai ho baba “Larry Page ki”. And at the other end there is me who even from past 25 yrs searching for the basic facts of life…..

1. What is the aim we are living.

2. Why the situation some time becomes so worst that we are unable to tackle them.

3. why blah blah blah….

So why…shuldn’t my dreams get frustrated enough to commit whatever ppl say as suc-ide [:)].

This is i hope the solo reason why some time ppl get settled with the compromised attitude and life style and believe that this was a god hand written rule and we can’t help it.

Then suddenly i realizes that ok all well …but do i really have the passion to know about the life..and if yes then i have a check list…..ans this:

1. Who are you?

2. What is the objective you have?

3. And what for your dreams comprises?

$. What you really want to be.

6. A specific punch line for you.

And i can bet on this that many of us or better to say 9.9 out of 10 will not be able to ans half of them, and rest i never count the exceptions like….”Every time a safe sex is not safe” [:P].

jokes apart…

So do we really search for the things we admire, we dream and if not ……wait…..wait….don’t say that this is similar to commitment. Believe me this is much more than commitment. This is a real interview of yours with the have and have nots of you possess.

Can you still say that you have the dying attitude to know about the life…..same as what Bindra was having when he shooted the birds eye.

And if you have the ans for this then the topic is no more boring for you ….you got the light ..cherish it..live it.

And say proudly——>>>>>>>> “Dreams I Am Coming”.

Destiny: A personal definition

Destiny refers to a predetermined course of events. It may be conceived as a predetermined future, whether in general or of an individual. It is a concept based on the belief that there is a fixed natural order to the universe.

This definition may be help you when you want to give debate on this topic as this is as concrete as the concrete itself and life is not always concrete. :-)

Some times it happens that you don’t know what life is all about. It is smooth as you can’t believe sometimes and it is zigzag as you never want to see that phase again and this might be possible that you met with a situation where you feel that ohh!! crap what the hell is this and what next? And here the decision which you takes to survive in that time is the overall replication of your efforts, your dreams and your capabilities. And then we can say destiny plays it’s role.

So destiny is the mixture which comes into the concern when your dreams met with the commitment, loyalty, and hard work along with the right guidance and motivation of your near and dear ones. The last few of words of last line were quite obvious and difficult also. Indeed people can have everything, they put all efforts with full zeal, nut’s still they never stand what is Destiny? This is because the don’t have right guidance and motivation of their near and dear one’s, mind it.

So don’t search here and there if you want to know that why you being made for, what is your destiny and why? All these answers are quite simple and obvious and you can get it very easily. Just make the environment as i thought and explained above.

What you see when your eyes are close

Dreams are not those which you see while you sleep dreams are the facts which never ever allows you to sleep: Great observation. Certainly if you are truthful to your commitment you will never be able to sleep untill and unless your commitment get accomplished and so in the case of dream.
Many of us will be agree with the fact that sooner or later we all have a master dream and for achieving that we always have some landmarks to achieve, we can say them as a partial dream, in a day at least once that master dream comes into our eyes realizes us that we have a work or a commitment remained to do and thus we have no right to sit and to take rest at least until the dream get realized and now the loyalty and the passion comes into the concern which decides that whether or not you are loyal towards your own dream.
Some day back i had seen a movie “The Terminal” and at the very moment i understood the necessities for commitment and passion for your goal and dream. And then the chain begins one after another i encountered so many examples through movie, reality and fictions that yes…
There is no sleeping pill which cause a dream for you this is passion, love and the one and only loyal commitment which cause a dream for you which you see only when you are unconsciously awaking.
How many of us belongs to the category who believe in it might be very less and that’s why this world have a phrase like “Dream is an illusion hard to realize and tough to see”. Hope you will not be the part of this.

Life make you enough stronger than you wanted to be...

Yes this happened and usually to those who wanted to achieve big in the world. As we all IBM recruits wanted to be the big and i suppose excluding me all are the master in their field. Life wanted to make them enough stronger so that they can bear things in any cost and situation ...Initially a company recruits you through the bash and get relaxed that the shape of life is decided. And just before you are making yourself mentally prepare for the new journey and the need of hour arises you got a news that still you are not authentic and you have to prove yourself once again.
So what is this can understand that the life is not at all playing a game it is making us stronger stronger stronger as every day passes more stronger than the previous.

Destiny: Dont scratch your head

I personally never felt that if we talk about the man power we are any where less than any body in the whole world though we are not as productive as others are. So where the problems lies? Does we dont know where the destiny of ours are lying, no we are no where suffering from this unknown problem of not knowing our destiny even. Then if we are not as capable as others are, certainly we are backing the system where we are living and nurturing our selves as we don't know the power of dreaming.

This is the ingredient in which we are lacking and getting degraded as we are not having any thing to desire and even if we desire we presume that it is merely a dream and there is nothing to get serious. At that point of time all the challenges to the world are over as we dont have anything to do and we are happy with the situation we are living in so ................better is to make the real life slogan of :chak de india.


O.K. let me have a question to you all...How many of us knows that what exactly they want to do in couple of the months? The ans is null or to less or contable on the fingers. The problem is that we are driven by the time and we are used to of this which is the biggest loophole in ours. We thought that the time will tell that what we have to do in our life and certainly if you will not decide then time will decide and this time ...time will be no one else except those who knows that what their destines are. So here lies the difference we make our selves the slaves of time and further time sold us to the others who better know that how to work with time and on time.


So the debate is not over here as i am not putting only question ...though i certainly wanted to know that how many of us belongs to the first group of being driven rather to be in the group of the chariots. So fnds if you feel that at this age you have to achieve much more than that what you are having now ...come on Stand Up because this the time we can mitigate our faults up to some extent......as you have to fly and not fly ...we have to touch the sky also

All The Best

LAkshya the destiny

Hi friends , i know now a days i am too frequent to write a blog but what can i say except this that at this time i am feeling so much enthusiastic that i can't explain in the words.
I know that it is quite easy job to weep in front of the celluloid screen while seeing a movie or any real or non real drama which makes you encountered with your passionate living or whatever you say your emotions. But once the ploy is over it is too difficult to touch those imaginative moments in real life.

How many time you bend on your knees to thank to the god that you got sth for which you really work hard....how many times you weep with the so called "Tears of happiness".How many times your parents hugs you with the saying that "Son you make us proud ".I feel numbers are not even so that you can even move on your finger much. So the question is that why it happens so often that the work which we admire literally, for that we are not so much committed and disciplined.

Why it happens to the few family's only, that the father is having the tears in his eyes for the achievement of his extraordinary son. Why the son is extraordinary even though he too has the same nourishment of the breast feeding during his child hood, then what is the things which makes them special than the common one's. This is the question we have to think about as the parents of our's are also liable to have the same moment of joy which the extraordinary son's bring for their parents..

So the time is even not for away from the reach as there is always a good saying "Efforts may fail but don't fail to make the efforts". So folks do the job honestly which is assigned to you with the full perfection , perception and the follow the rule of being a professional ...
ALL THE BEST

A new story ...just started

Lines were simple...that...
"It's impossible to move in two direction at the same time,as long as you fight against what you don't want ,you will make no progress towards what you desire."No doubt the scenario is common and today or tomorrow we have to face it willingly or unwillingly ....but the thing is that either you dig into your heels or you will move ahead and no doubt the second option is better for being the winner.
Every day i start with a philosophy.
If you can dream, but not make dream your master...
If you can think, but not make thoughts your aim....
Then this earth is yours and everything in it...
And it will be more, you will be a man.


Thak gaya hu yaar apne baare main batate batate....
Aisa hai suno gaur se...aakahri baar bata raha hun fir nahi baatunga.

Main wo parinda hun jo bahut unchi udaan bherna chahta hai..jo chuna chata hai aasmaan ko..jiske sapno main koi hai jo use har raat bas ek hi manjil dikhta hai...uske bina uske mummy papa uski salamti ki dua har pal kerte hai apne dil main baithakar rekhta hai jisi uska bhai.
Jiske doston ki duniya main wo ek pyaara sa jhonka hai....aur jo sab ke liya jita hai aur khud apni aaknon main doosron ke khwaab rakhta hai.
Bas yahi main hun ya yahi main banana chahta hun......

jai maa durge madat karo mery

Can we compromise on our destiny

A big question it is that after being on the highest step of the collage building can we compromise with our dignity and if not, can we say that what so ever was there in our collage was really a shame.Now let see what exactly the melodrama was "During the game of Carom a seat was vacant and a fourth year guy was there who was having someone with his as a player so he occupied the seat because it was vacant ,now some of the second year student came, they ask a question with the final year guy and then behave not only rudely but also with some of the pity abuses, now if in the response of that fourth year student collectively hits the second year one during his free session in the class room then where they were wrong bcoz The Second Year Guy WAS Local and tats why the final year one hit him collectively."

Now let see the punishment made by the collage authorities:

Two student from final year are Restricted from the collage for a year
And the second year one has got only the warning

"Now it clarifies that the collage has done the things under pressure"

Can we compromise with ours dignity?

If not then why this punishment was implemented.