Destiny: A personal definition

Destiny refers to a predetermined course of events. It may be conceived as a predetermined future, whether in general or of an individual. It is a concept based on the belief that there is a fixed natural order to the universe.

This definition may be help you when you want to give debate on this topic as this is as concrete as the concrete itself and life is not always concrete. :-)

Some times it happens that you don’t know what life is all about. It is smooth as you can’t believe sometimes and it is zigzag as you never want to see that phase again and this might be possible that you met with a situation where you feel that ohh!! crap what the hell is this and what next? And here the decision which you takes to survive in that time is the overall replication of your efforts, your dreams and your capabilities. And then we can say destiny plays it’s role.

So destiny is the mixture which comes into the concern when your dreams met with the commitment, loyalty, and hard work along with the right guidance and motivation of your near and dear ones. The last few of words of last line were quite obvious and difficult also. Indeed people can have everything, they put all efforts with full zeal, nut’s still they never stand what is Destiny? This is because the don’t have right guidance and motivation of their near and dear one’s, mind it.

So don’t search here and there if you want to know that why you being made for, what is your destiny and why? All these answers are quite simple and obvious and you can get it very easily. Just make the environment as i thought and explained above.

I am no more mediocre … I am the best

“I am no where going to fight like a moron for such a life where everytime people fight for the excellence”, and as soon as this is your line, i believe you are not a successful one. As the very much accepted defination, though i am not saying that success can be defined as it is relative, is always believe that in the area you are putting your leg your are among the best.

So being the best is no where an easy task you have to put everything of yours at the stake and then only you will become the best, whether this is the area of academics or personality or in genral life. Everytime you have to put the biggest strength of your’s for becoming the best or among the best. Because this is all about balance and the way you thought. May be you want to have all the things means you want to be the jack of all, O.K., it means you are the best as per as the balance making is in concern, as for becoming the jack of all the excellence is not requires in the areas you are in but in a way you are putting all those togather.

And i thought today i ralized it, can’t say up to what extent i am soleley in it but let’s see how many of you can find it.

Good day, all the best.

Does i have a personality superimposition.....?

The question is itself defining the thought that today i am going to scratch the old happenings of my life...at the same time question arises that why at this stage...? Why not earlier..? Whats the worth of this discussion ..?Does i am going to change anything or i want to regret for something ...? In all the cases the ans of mine will be a big NO...Then what the reason that we all are scratching our head collectively for getting those thought which can never be realized now.May be they can be done earlier, may be few of them can even today be realized partially..But is it the right time...?

The ans of all these questions come in one line only... that, what if we can re live the life what if we don't have the reverse button but one thing which we can do at any instant of time is to remember the mistakes we had done in past and to testify that neither we will committee that again nor we allow others to make such a blunder in their life's .....so my story start from here .
From this point what i can recall is my "lower prep" at the age of 4 when i had the fear that i have to sing a poetry at the school stage on 15 August...and from that day onward i did this job as many time as many celebration the dais of school has seen then after my college and finally my university has gone through the same replication.Every time i had something to say to my colleagues friends and to the other renowned persons of the gathering ...slowly i got stuck with the feeling that i have a great Anchor in me so at the level of class 8th i though i will become the News reader as that was the only place i knew for those who speaks and speaks brilliantly.

Here one thing is worth mentioning that i belong to family which can be put in the lower middle class where the fight is for living the life with proper prestige and nourishment is ever lasting so there is no place for fatal thoughts and silly dreams and even the parents don't know much about the fuddy duddy of life. The same happened with me,the would be Television Anchor when he suddenly thought and dreamed that Why not i add one extra diction in my name which will give me much money and power than a news reader as there parent also wanted the same from him....and thus i planned for that leaving the dream of becoming an anchor into the dustbin.

I never knew or realized it but people used to say me that i am good at Mathematics and then i thought that this DICTION can be "Er." and so i opted for engineering and got stuck with the dream of IIT as common as sun rises in the east. And then i realized that i was never good in mathematics so the story turns into the sad segment and after spending two lovely years of life while making cassetles in the air with the mask of IIT preparation. So the ramification of all this became like CANCER for my career and in the private engg college i lost all my love for studies and started doing all the extra study affairs....thank god i had done something right :-)) and from here the journey starts which told me at every stoppage of first year, second year then consecutively in the later years that, Engg was never the tea of my cup and i have to choose something else...

But the question even today remains the same ....Choose WHAT?...At this level when i have a master degree, when i already lived 24 years of my life without earning a good amount of happiness for my family what i can start..? Does it will be a right thing ....what's the guarantee that after adopting something new i will be able to get all my dreams...what if i again want to quit...?There are some of the questions which always tees me lot whenever i want to put my dreams forward....

I Know many people are suffering from the same condition of dilemma but why...shouldn't it be removed. Can't we put the gears in our life.If yes then when we will start ?..from our TOMB ...no ?

Classess which are making me NOSTALGIC

Just one year back i was having the same murmur that i am from E&I and i dont know much about the programming but along with the positive attitude that very soon i will get all the fundas of this Buzz of programming though i have a long way to go still i learned alot thanx to all who had made me such a sincere and efficient that today i can effectively say that i am a Software Engineer.


Here the new story began just after that i got a job we got the charming assignment to create panic in front of those who are the newcomers so we started it with all our Zeal and Masti and here one thing i come to know that teaching something is never a easy job and here i am feeling the real thing, as those who don't know anything they wont ask and those who know something they are unable to express. So teaching to these type to species is quite a difficult job and specially when you don't have all the rights in your hand.

So i planned one thing that up to the time i will not get the right orders or better to say the specific orders i will make them efficient in those which in not only essential but also just to die for and that is to be as efficient as a minimum threshold requirement is there for any software engg.

Lets see how much success i will able to get in this new area of my struggel ........Good day